We all want to be liked by monkey minds of others which is eventually change its preferences time to time.
At last we become miserable.
Because society is full of people having monkey minds. The monkey minds has interest and fantasies of its own which has nothing to do with reality. But they are trying to project those expectations and passivity onto others in form of judgments and opinions. Sometimes they don’t even do it intentionally to harm others but it’s supremely hardwired in their minds.
Neither Complaining about them is the solution, Nor trying to change them is the solution.
Awareness is the Solution I can think about.